C - CLEAR
In
continuation of ‘CLAIM LOVE’, we are
looking at the first letter in ‘CLAIM’
to mean a Clear Vision. One very vital force that should determine whether to
enter a love relationship with a man or woman is to ascertain whether he/she has
a Clear Vision.
The
Advanced Learner’s Dictionary defines vision as the ability to think about or
plan the future with great imagination and intelligence. Making a love proposal
to a lady whom you are not sure if she’s clear about the vision of her life and
future is a suicide mission.
Likewise
for a lady to accept love advancement from a vision-less man is embarking on an
unending world of suffering. With a clear study of the virtues of the virtuous
woman in the book of Proverbs 31: 10 – 31, you simply see a woman who had a
clear vision for God, herself, husband and children.
God
gave Adam a vision of what to do with his life before giving him a wife.
Proverbs 29: 18 says where there is no vision, the
people perish. If two vision-less people should enter a boat be too sure it is a
direction less voyage and they will end up as victims, it’s simply a journey to
nowhere, loaded with frustration and uncertainties.
My
discovery showed that a lot of youth today just make love move without being
sure if his/her partner has a clarity of what he or she wants to do with his or
her life.
Even
if you claim it’s God that gives you the lady, she must possess a quality
vision of what tomorrow will be, a woman that has ownership of the road map to
success.
As
a woman accepting love offer from a vision-less man is a signal that you want to
waste your time and resources, it is dangerous travelling with a man who is not
sure of where he is going.
Most
of the time the emotion or affection involved between a man and a woman make
the subject of vision to be undermined, but my discovery showed that at the
long run, the eyes of both parties will open to realities.
What
fuels a living love adventure is a quality vision from both parties. The strength
of vision in any relationship cannot be over emphasized. That is why with my
experience in the youth ministry for almost 20 years, I believe in the subject of
dating as a Christian youth.
During
the process of dating, if you are sincere and you love your life, you will know if the man or woman you are saying I
love you to,has a vision about his or her future or not.
If
you have a vision, when you meet someone who has a vision you will know without
spending hours in prayer and fasting.
Winning
love adventure hinge on quality vision. God gave Adam the vision and sent Eve
to be a help mate.
Have
you ever asked your spouse?
What is his/her vision? Don’t let your love voyage hit a rock
before you start asking for your spouse’s vision in
life.
TO BE CONTINUE
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